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Post by Deleted on Sept 13, 2019 17:02:14 GMT
Something I noticed at work is that somehow I changed my behavior in a good sense. This went unnoticed, but I now better understand why. Let me first explain what happened. I started this job in June and the CEO and technical manager are 2 men who love to yell and are rather self centered. This was very confronting for me as I had never been used to such ego’s at work lol. The first few weeks I remember how innerly I was frustrated and the inner chatter in my ego mind was “They should show some respect to me” etc.
But the last few weeks things are going better from my perspective. The 2 guys are still yelling but their relationship towards me and vice versa is on quite a good level now. I was just wondering how this changed and the following words came to mind: “Don’t take yourself so seriously”. And that is exactly what happened. I can see how I finally let go of all this. You can’t change other people, you can just change yourself and let go of the control of your ego.
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Post by Hans Schokkenbroek on Sept 13, 2019 17:48:50 GMT
Something I noticed at work is that somehow I changed my behavior in a good sense. This went unnoticed, but I now better understand why. Let me first explain what happened. I started this job in June and the CEO and technical manager are 2 men who love to yell and are rather self centered. This was very confronting for me as I had never been used to such ego’s at work lol. The first few weeks I remember how innerly I was frustrated and the inner chatter in my ego mind was “They should show some respect to me” etc. But the last few weeks things are going better from my perspective. The 2 guys are still yelling but their relationship towards me and vice versa is on quite a good level now. I was just wondering how this changed and the following words came to mind: “Don’t take yourself so seriously”. And that is exactly what happened. I can see how I finally let go of all this. You can’t change other people, you can just change yourself and let go of the control of your ego. I struggled with this for a while. You cannot change other people yet the world is supposed to be your personal reflection for which I am totally responsible. How can you reconcile that? After a long while I did get the insight which of course is personal. We all have free will and therefor I cannot change Blossom. But....... I do have the power to change my timeline (jump timeline) and to find the Universe where Blossom is exactly in line with my personal preference. So all I have to do is visualise the world I personally want and jump to that timeline.... Letting go is a very very important thing in my view. Anything that holds your attention and is not serving you is taking energy from you. I finally settled on literally ignoring the mirror and focusing on manifesting the world I want in the full knowledge that the mirror has NO choice but to change accordingly. The way I see it we just have this constant challenge that the mirror has a delay. So when we wake up the next morning we do not immediately see what we are manifesting. It takes time in this realm. But by letting go and having faith that the mirror will change in time it WILL eventually change in time. Unless..... you wake up and think that you do not have that which you wanted. At that very moment... POOOFFF.. you just destroyed your previous manifestation. One little addition. I have chosen NOT to create anything I want. Why? Because for me that is very selfish and I have no idea how my manifestations affect others. It is about service to self and not service to others. So instead I chose to project gratitude for having everything I need. Gratitude for having abundance in resources so I can do what I need to do and go where I need to go in order to help ALL my relations as best as I can. There is nothing wrong in my view if other chose to manifest specifically. It is a personal choice. Thank you Blossom for this post and thank you for returning to the forum. I missed you.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 13, 2019 21:41:12 GMT
Thank you Hans for your kind and insightful words. I am happy to be back on this forum and missed you guys also.
I partly agree with your post. It is true, in my case I manifested a new universe in line with my personal preference and letting go is indeed very important as you described. However, I don't think that creating what I want should be of a selfish nature. I think it is crucial that people become aware of their own behavior and realize that they are being controlled by their own ego. Continuing that behavior is in my eyes what affects your personal energy as well as the energy of others. I think that when people start realizing that the world they are manifesting could be so much different when they stop giving energy to all those anxieties, anger, frustration and whatever woo as our mysterious guest calls it, and think critically about what exactly happened in this or that situation, they would be able to broaden their awareness level. This is in my eyes what would affect yourself AND others in a more constructive manner. In fact, doing this is not really manifesting what you want. How I see it is that you are accessing a greater reality in which you are no longer enslaved by the ego hive mind. A reality in which you have saved your own energy (that you are now losing to your ego mind) and in which you can broaden your cognitive awareness level, access other senses that most people can't access (or don't even realize they have these potential senses), etc. It is great to help others, but in order to do that it is quite important that we first help ourselves to become who we truly are.
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Post by IW on Aug 3, 2021 0:32:15 GMT
Thank you Hans for your kind and insightful words. I am happy to be back on this forum and missed you guys also. I partly agree with your post. It is true, in my case I manifested a new universe in line with my personal preference and letting go is indeed very important as you described. However, I don't think that creating what I want should be of a selfish nature. I think it is crucial that people become aware of their own behavior and realize that they are being controlled by their own ego. Continuing that behavior is in my eyes what affects your personal energy as well as the energy of others. I think that when people start realizing that the world they are manifesting could be so much different when they stop giving energy to all those anxieties, anger, frustration and whatever woo as our mysterious guest calls it, and think critically about what exactly happened in this or that situation, they would be able to broaden their awareness level. This is in my eyes what would affect yourself AND others in a more constructive manner. In fact, doing this is not really manifesting what you want. How I see it is that you are accessing a greater reality in which you are no longer enslaved by the ego hive mind. A reality in which you have saved your own energy (that you are now losing to your ego mind) and in which you can broaden your cognitive awareness level, access other senses that most people can't access (or don't even realize they have these potential senses), etc. It is great to help others, but in order to do that it is quite important that we first help ourselves to become who we truly are.
I am not sure what happened to Blossom? or even Myka. I love the title of this thread, which may have been started by Myka? or maybe Blossom.
It is the ego that manifests as "the most important" thing. And always so much easier to be in disagreement than to come together in hope and compassion.
Manifesting is something that happens whether we are "aware" or not, it is part of our being to manifest. The hijacking occurs when we are not in control of all we are, being too big with the ego or too small. The tendency to enlarge ourselves or think we are victims and too small to make a difference. Both lies that takes lives.
The need to help ourselves, or the desire to help others is two sides of the same coin. The problem is the vision in the how and what. What is most helpful and how does it come about? There is an allowance that comes about after the ego takes its correct backseat position. We don't know what's best! No clue. anyone who claims to know what's best for anyone is full of it.
This is why the NOW is so important, living in the NOW, being conscious is the only way to live correctly. If you have been listening to the inner guide, higher self or whatever you call it. You will have built up a trust in it, since you will never lead YOU astray. It is the best and only strategy for self improvement and help for others. It has the vision and knowledge of all time and beyond, because it has never lost its connection to Source love, compassion, hope, and all caring with purpose of being.
If you rely on your mind and the thinking pattern of habits, or the airwaves around you, or maybe the hunger pains, body pains etc. just know that this stuff goes nowhere. We are all naturally lazy, being conscious every moment is the hardest thing in the world to be, but it's the only thing that will get us out of here.
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