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Post by IW on Feb 20, 2019 4:54:49 GMT
I like this video as it's about the only one I've ever seen that describes what love is out of this construct in a concise manner. The description towards the end is excellent.
The fact is: there is very little of the real love existing here, since universally "love" for most is an emotion, or a mother's care, or maybe the bond of friendship/ brotherly sentiment.
Energetically Love (in the matrix) is opposite to Hate, and they do oscillate as part of the duality system.
We are only allowed a dim 'reel' to the Real, since Love is wholeness of being (without any need).
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Post by Hans Schokkenbroek on Feb 20, 2019 11:13:11 GMT
I fully agree with the concept that true Love is not an emotion. Having said that the road to recognising your Higher Self and then re-uniting with HS starts in my opinion with the ability to love yourself. The attached text accompanied one of Bruce Lipton's YouTube newsletters, in this case about valentine's day. It is not TRUE LOVE but again, I do think this is where it all started for me. I first had to love myself before I could start reconnecting with Higher Self.... ------- The Biology of Love - Making Every Day Valentines Day with Dr. Bruce LiptonLove is in the Air (actually, in the Field) By the time I was 40-years old, a dismal track record of failed relationships led me believe that love was a literary fabrication, a fantasy perpetuated by Hollywood. Regardless, missing that fictional experience did not remove hope for me, for I felt a “need” to continue my quest for a relationship. In the mid 80’s, I found myself on a Caribbean island, with a wonderful high salaried teaching position, living in a fabulous villa with pool on a private beach facing sunsets over the sea. Wow! I was in possession of the most fabulous pick-up line, “Hey, __(fill the blank)__, why don’t you come and hang-out in my Caribbean villa.” While I tried it a few times and it never worked, I did not give up. One day, at the island’s yacht club, I met a lovely single woman that was sailing through the Caribbean with friends. After sharing lunch and a few drinks, I hopefully dropped my pick-up line. After a few moments of silence, she looked me in the eye and responded, “I can’t be with you … you are too needy.” While it momentarily knocked the wind out of me, I truthfully responded, “Thank you, I needed that!” On the beach walk home, I pondered her life-shaking response. Too needy? I had health, money, a great job, an outrageous villa for a home. Over and over in my mind, I thought, “How come I can’t be happy with all the wonderful things I already have?” Rather than bemoaning the things I didn’t have, I began to focus on, and appreciate, the “gifts” I already had. In a short time, I was so busy enjoying my life that I no longer missed the need for a “partner.” In the process something magical happened, I began to love myself. Previous to this time, when I saw myself in the mirror, I would rattle off a litany of my self-perceived faults. Thoughts that I now recognize were self-sabotaging subconscious programs acquired in my far-less-than-ideal childhood. In a short time, I was able to look at my image and appreciate the positive characteristics I had acquired in my life. In the process of rewriting my subconscious beliefs, replacing negative programs with positive affirmations, I experienced a magical transformation. Once I learned to love myself, life magically transformed from purgatory to Heaven-on-Earth. Interestingly, not “needing” a partner led to an opportunity where many wonderful potential partners came into my life. The success of this transformation is expressed in the 20 years of experiencing the Honeymoon Effect with my life partner, Margaret. The lesson is profound: To experience LOVE in this world, we must first LOVE ourselves. Otherwise, our relationships are co-dependent in which we are dependent on the other partner for providing the love we seek. Interestingly, in belief-change programs in which I have participated, between 80 and 90% of all participants would not test positive for the belief, “I love myself.” For this Valentine’s Day, I wish for all of you that you can stand in front of a mirror, not be self-critical, and honestly acknowledge “I love myself.” Once your energy field is vibrating in the frequency of LOVE, through harmonic resonance you will find yourself immersed in a world of peace, harmony and, of course, LOVE. HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY DEAR FRIENDS!!!!!! With Love & Light, Bruce
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Post by IW on Feb 20, 2019 11:28:50 GMT
In order to love oneself, one must be able to see oneself as one is. This is the beginning of truth. I believe that when one sees the truth without turning away, this is also the beginning of loving oneself. Thanks WB
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Post by Deleted on Nov 26, 2019 19:49:21 GMT
People don't know what love is. This is a fact. It's also why this world is such a shithole and there is no hope for it... There is nothing real here. Everything is a replacement, an illusion. This is just how it was created, by duplicating things with their fakes (which is what Platonism and Gnosticism is about). From whom and with what purpose... it's a speculation, but we can see the final result (those that have eyes of course)... If the self itself is replaced, can you expect from the "persona", from the "ego" to know what love is? It's a bit pointless topic to explain the real, since the only way to actually see it, is for you to become real.
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Post by ML on Nov 26, 2019 23:56:06 GMT
People don't know what love is. A few do, most dont To you maybe. to others also maybe. Accurate Quite an interesting take, but i can see a bit of truth in here. Welcome here Interim )))))) I hope we can have more healthy discussions )))) Thanks
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Post by Deleted on Nov 29, 2019 18:04:36 GMT
You can't have a healthy discussion on this planet. It's just a simple consequence of all the previous factors. Truth just hurts most people. Earth is a place of delusions. More popular means more delusional. If you were not delusional, you would not be here. And yep, this includes me. I at least understand and fight the delusions, which can't be said for almost all people I know...
I registered to get more information on this book, but I think I'm not missing anything...
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Post by ML on Nov 30, 2019 4:53:35 GMT
You can't have a healthy discussion on this planet. It's just a simple consequence of all the previous factors. Discussion? You can have a healthy one. The data might not be healthy but the discussion itself can be healthy. agree 100% I hope you have the appropriate emotional stability to receive this message, it looks like you have... here it is in my estimate you have rooms, maybe a lot more than you might think ... for improvement on your ego handling. I hope you take this positively because it appears that you might have more to share in this forum, and i think we can share some things to you too. Thank you
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