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Post by truelight on Mar 9, 2018 23:11:58 GMT
I hope you join me and share with those who have eyes to see and ears to hear.
Friday, March 9, 2018 Empathic Sensitivity vs Egoic "Sensitivity" *As always, what is written here is meant to be shared. Blessings. Serena, Lady of the Woods
I am writing again, though my last article I haven't published yet because I have to include the alien theme into it, but it is truly about the vampirism of ones vital essence as I've been referring to it for years.
Sensitivity: Egoic/Survival instinct vs Heart Connectivity to All
Many "people" claim they are "sensitive." We must break this down, what does it mean to be "sensitive" in the first place? It is another abused vague umbrella term to describe a heightened survival mechanism/self protective mechanisms vs a completely different meaning/function of a divine connectivity to all living things.
They are completely different "sensitivities" derived from completely different sources.
Other true "sensitivities" are emotional, psychic, and spiritual sensitivity all which comprise a vast difference in how they function to what they are sensitive to, which all fall into the category of the "connectivity to all living things". Each one a post on its own. But I want to focus on the egoic sensitivity which is not a true "sensitivity" but a survival instinct vs the empathic sensitivity which is connectivity, the real one. And this is prime difference and purpose of this post.
Egoic/Hive Mind "Sensitivity"
The egoic "sensitivity" is a fake personality, an imposter of a human being which is all about the self and self preservation, an ''its all about me'' type of being, which functions from the (hive) mind vs the "connectivity to all living things" sensitivity which are true functions of the heart, skin, organs of the entire biology and soul of a true human being and which amounts to a vast variety of senses and purpose of such for cosmic knowledge, oneness, wisdom and the continuation of Divine Life from the micro of self to the macro of the All.
Egoic/narcissistic (and alien) people will say they are sensitive and they are right (in a sense), though they are speaking purely from the ego, and the ego is sensitive to many things that perceives threat to its fake personality (disorder). Mind you some real humans can operate from the ego due to damage and huge fears, traumas and planetary interference, and they are dysfunctional but human. But the egoic/imposter/alien functions from this ego/hive mind because that is all they have and they are the most dangerous. Its complicated and convoluted.
*Note: I do not believe the ego is a bad thing per se, but it is the tool which the un-divine functions from as primary, a tool they have weaponized. Whereas the divine functions and most desires to function as primarily from heart and connectivity. In this post its about ego used as a weaponized tool that is faking "sensitivity".
*Keep in mind also if the egoic one has A.D.D. or any other disorder their fake "sensitivity" will be even more exaggerated or more acute.
*Also, please steer clear of misplaced compassion, believing these ones are simply wounded. Until you know exactly what you are dealing with. It is best to test them to know for sure before you engage in the trap of compassionate giving, because they will take this and twist it until they are thriving again and you are sick and drained! Be warned. There are more compassionate ones walking around needing meds from the toxic egoic sensitized freak, who often is not even human, but alien or who is possessed by the billions of entities seeking hosts.
They will be "sensitive" indeed, to criticism, scrutiny, lack of worship, honest debate, wiser people, etc etc. You get the point. However, and this is where it can get tricky.....they can and do get emotional and can cry...... but take note of what makes them cry.......it will always be something that takes away anything they perceive as theirs, or, pure self pity. Anything that may take away what they feel they "possess" can cause them to get "emotional" and either lash out or cry. This does not mean ''sensitivity/connectivity", it means they are "losing something their mind perceives as theirs" being lost or taken, something that serves them. But it will be about them. And yes, the ego has emotions though they are all negative based, such as anger, pride, intolerance, self importance, megalomania, blame, frustration, etc etc..... these are negative emotions that belong to the ego only. The heart/soul do not possess these. The heart/soul possess hundreds of refined feelings and emotions of tolerance, receptivity, openness, honest inquiry, forgiveness, altruism, love, joy, kindness. The egoic (alien) will never question themselves and don't you dare question them either. But they will make you question yourself. Their inner fears will be projected as a hostility and intolerance (and some kind of warning onto you either verbally or energetically/subliminally), and you will regretfully go ''inside and do your inner work''. They can either remain defensive or become fawning depending on situation and relationship.
And so they will be perceived as "sensitive". They are not true sensitives, they are survivalistically sensitized. Their "sensitivity" can be and usually is well rehearsed by observation and mimicry.
They will be "sensitive" to anything that may diminish how they are perceived, or anything that may put to their light their self image, whether that image is overly high or overly low, it is usually one or the other. Anything that will expose them as functioning from a purely mental state will make them sensitive. Instinctively they are aware it is a lesser state. Anyone who criticizes what they do, will make them "sensitized", but it is not a true sensitivity. All this is the function, a mechanism of the ego for self protection. It is a Self Protective Alarm System, SPAS, that alerts them to anything that may expose them as something that is purely mental/egoic/narcissistic (alien), and not as being of the divine/oneness/heart. This egoic "sensitivity" is obvious when you pay attention and listen with knowledge of these vast differences, with what you are dealing with.
They can be tested and I highly recommend this.
Are you speaking to an egoic talking head or are you speaking to a loving empathic being who is connected to all things? You must know who/what you are dealing with or it can cost you a great deal of suffering. And this is one reason why empathic abilities are traits of real human beings. WE must get smart about this. Its taken me decades to start seeing this for what it is. I have been too slow.
These egoic ones are operating from a survival instinct that is self protective as well as being incognito.......though again, for perfect "plausible deniability" which is explained in my article coming up......they are not fully aware that they are working in hiding. It is unconscious instinct, survival instinct. Something they lack must not be discovered so this survival instinct is well hidden and well protected and well disguised. They need you, you don't need them. But they can't tell you what they're after. Depending on how much they have to hide will reflect on how "sensitized" they are to being discovered...... or to what lengths they will go to, to remain hidden, or to what lengths they will go to threaten whoever threatens them. If they are psychopathic they can threaten your life. Or if they are "merely" narcissistic they will resort to cunning stealth abuses. They're programmed to be able to, in a nano second, strategize how they can and will crush you in some way. They can go from an outwardly "behaviorally loving" person, to a "I will crush you" intolerance to inquiry. But in no way will they allow any perceived threat large or diminutive go unpunished. They can go from being the "do gooder" to the one who will not stop at anything to destroy who got in the way of their stealth acquisition. They are easily brought to aggression, insult, and indignation if you question even the slightest thing they say to you whether it be fact, or even opinion. To feign "respect" they can appear to tolerate a difference of opinion by blowing you off quietly. Or not quietly. They have no inner authenticity. All that enters their mind is perceived as data to be processed in their goal of self preservation. The hive mind is akin to the borg, assimilate and destroy.
The hive mind thrives on thoughts of survival and anyone who can contribute to them. The connected one thrives in feeling connected and QUALITY of life. The hive mind thinks. The connected one feels.
Connectivity To All Living Things Sensitivity
The real "sensitive" ones possess, and rightly so, a sensitivity to all living things that is inclusive by the nature of their love. They will be sensitive about what they hear on the news, they can be upset or disturbed about events in a friends life, they can be sensitive to animals, plants, trees, the weather, solar storms, everything and all of these things in their experience of life will affect them and change them....why? because there is something wrong with them (as narcissists will say) ? NO, because there is something right with them. These are beings CONNECTED, and they are connected because their soul is connected to all living things, plants, animal, human (or non human), anything that lives and breathes, they will be sensitive to, responsive to and have feelings for and with. The egoic one will not, they will only have feelings for themselves and those who can serve them in some way. They can even appear to serve you, in order to have something from you which ultimately serves them, even if it is merely you make them look good. And truly they use you as an arm piece or partner up with you somehow for exactly that reason for who will suspect them of being an imposter when an authentic is by their side? They will help you because they have something to gain from it.
True "sensitivity" is the hallmark sign of am true humane being, not merely human, but humane. These sensitivities comprised of hundreds or thousands of super fine diaphanous networks of connections, are the natural state of being, it is what makes us a part of an ubiquitous grandiosity, a greater whole and which gives us many wonderful feelings of being creative and beautiful, a benevolent force of life with other life forms, to helping us to feel we are not alone. So quickly you ask, then why do we feel so alone? Because we are outnumbered by a vast population of fake ''people'' who do not possess senses of true "sensitivity", who live from the hive survivalist mind and who are in fact vampiric of the inner connectivity web that is the gossamer plasmic fabric of life that weaves all the living ones together. And they are destroying that......individually unconsciously but collectively, consciously, synergistically, where the greater numbers of them increase their noxious effects upon the whole. The connected one knows it possesses authenticity and inner wisdom and wants to share it but will wait for someone to be interested and ask. They do not impose their beliefs or knowledge, they wait for receptive sharing. They are gentle in how they handle others thoughts and feelings, considering the effect they will have on others and this requires true sensitivity.
Disclaimer: Not All Humans Will Be Empaths And So Caution Must Be Used To Discern
Not every humane being is empathic. And not all true humans are sensitive either because those functions can be shut down. So they are living in a diminished state. Empathy is however, the natural ability of true humans and so many are still evolving in re-possessing this ability. Some are bereft of empathy for many reasons from being closed off which can be self imposed or imposed by others, to interference from trauma, to a closing down the heart, to sinister frequencies being broadcast onto the earth, etc etc. So while you may be organically empathic, you have been shut down, or will reclaim these abilities of empathy for reconnection when it is understood what you are dealing with and you willingly do work to retrieve it. If you do so, you will be armed against what seeks to parasite from you. Awareness and self healing can turn empathy on, I believe, if there is a true desire heartfully and cellularly to be reunited to all living things, which is a beautiful thing in a beautiful world of love and self love. Admittedly it is no fun on this planet, or in this plane of existence I should say but when you find other empaths, the sharing is intensely wonderful and far exceeds any apparent exchange. It is however the best tool we have to learn about what has infested this world, all the fake people who live here, imposters of humanity, whilst equally the best tool to learn about the beauty of what it means to be a true humane being and all the magnanimosity that comes with being humane, connected to all Life both on planet and off.
Empaths and sensitives are the canary in the mine. The canary in the mine is the way shower.....is the warming system for those who are clueless about what is all around them. What you can't smell or sense, the sensitive canary does. Listen carefully to and cherish that sensitive canary
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Post by IW on May 23, 2018 4:53:17 GMT
Narcissist/Alien Mind It is not human and cannot relate to humanity-NO Empathy
This is from Serena Lady of the Woods blog, one of truelight's favorite reads. I really wanted to get rid of the "truelight needs our help" last posted thread (Hopefully she doesn't and is doing better than ever before!), that I have been looking at for a month now, so here goes:
(March 2018) I am writing for and to those who know there are both human and alien forces that is nothing like what "we" are. It requires blood. It requires pain. It destroys. It causes suffering. It is sick. It is psychopathic. It is deranged. It is insane.
These Alien/Narcissists all operate the same. They all operate the same. They are all programmed the same. There is a checklist you can go through. They are a hive creature. Just listen to others. Listen.
Not all narcissists are alien, unfortunately some are indeed human. But when those who venture to seek out victims offer all the same things off their checklists and can be observed to follow a certain protocol of behaviors and tactic common among them, they are operating all the same, these are your aliens. They have always been here, but now we are awakening to them.
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We Must Hold On To Our Values and Our Love
For us, there is nothing BUT meaning. There is only magnanimity, potential, greatness, expansion, bliss, euphoria, beauty, and all the ineffable feelings that come with all of that! For them there is none of that, and they refer often to humans as meatsuits and futility of "existence", and they will ask you why you fantasize in false dreams. Laugh at them! You have just encountered the crux of their lifelessness and their own deep meaninglessness, the soulless.
You Can Survive Them By Total Disengagement
You can disengage them. Totally diffuse their hidden vampirism. Simply close yourself down to them....do not give them any authentic interaction, no opening of your Self, your heart, your mind, your emotions, your thoughts, nothing. Know you are dealing with/talking with shit. If you must because you work with them or live with them give them small talk and be polite but always keep it short and simple, and turn around and walk away and they will crumble.
Remember there are more of them than us, and yes this is about us vs them now, no more f**king around here. I'm not creating division, I'm calling it out! I'm tired of the suffering, the predation, the people who are kind who are in hiding, who are ill, who are victimized and then blamed, I'm effin tired of it all. We need to wake up to the horrid truths and get tough.
KNOW, if you are empathic you are already known and it is only a matter of time before you find yourself engaging one or more of these because they are actively seeking you/us out. If you get rid of one, there will be another behind him. Their hive mind/matrix operates on another level that is highly organized, and then is deployed onto individuals.
We need to test people, and test them well, and pay attention to our bodies and its messages. I've had messages from my own body that were incredibly strong but my mind could not grasp nor understand and I always dismissed them as being crazy. My mind and judgements were my own worst enemy. I was properly responding through my biology to the real and present danger while my mind betrayed me. I will never ever doubt my body again and I will tell my ignorant mind to shut up.
Test your new acquaintances over and over before you share, before you begin to give, your heart, your feelings, your kindness....Know Thy Self and Know Thy Enemy.....for you dear empath, have a stealth predator who knows how to find your particular brand of richness, but you don't know how to detect them.....they managed this.......and they will come for you over and over again. Feel and know.
But you can be rid of them.....you sure can. Then spend time recovering from the slime, nurture yourself in Nature, with gentle loving people and animals, plants, flower essences, music etc. I've said all this already but it cannot be stressed enough.
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Post by girlscout on May 29, 2018 19:14:32 GMT
THIS has come to be so important to me! Thanks Truelight (across the dimensions. =)
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Post by girlscout on Jun 5, 2018 22:04:17 GMT
SO! Are we empaths? Or Co-Dependents? hamrah.co/en/pages/boundaries-and-codependency/Boundaries and Codependency | 2. Emotional boundaries Healthy emotional boundaries separate and distinguish our emotions and responsibilities from those of others. A boundary draws an imaginary line separating your feelings from the feelings of those around you. The result is you avoid taking on other people’s feelings for them, or make yourself responsible for their emotional state. Because they have difficulty setting emotional boundaries, and are often in denial or ignorance regarding how they truly feel, codependents are unable to establish an emotional life separate from others. A person with healthy emotional boundaries does not find it necessary to give unsolicited advice, try to make someone else feel better, try to fix or rescue others from their problem, or blame others for the state of their life. The quality of a healthy person’s life is relatively unaffected by how others feel. As mature adults, they are aware of their powerlessness over others and know what and whom they are responsible for, namely themselves only. A codependent person, lacking emotional boundaries, is under the illusion he or she has the power to make someone feel differently. But the codependent’s efforts are really a form of covert controlling. Though the codependent will deny it, rescuing others from their problems fundamentally boils down to controlling behavior under the guise of being good and caring.
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Post by ML on Jun 6, 2018 0:30:11 GMT
SO! Are we empaths? Or Co-Dependents? The fact that you are asking this question means that you are an empath. If you are a narc you wont even ask this question If you are a co-dependent then you will immediately know that you are. My take on it. Thanks
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Post by girlscout on Jun 6, 2018 3:45:36 GMT
Thank you. I guess I’m a blend. I didn’t know about co-dependency until recently.
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Post by duckie on Jun 12, 2018 4:02:51 GMT
It's a hard place to be, I think, a blend between being an empath and a codependent. I think most of us who have become more aware of ourselves and others realize that there is always some codependency tendencies in each of us. We are much more sensitive to others' needs and of course, we do want our loved ones to be happier/healthier. Some of that spill over as the need to take care of them, etc. It's no different than saying that each of us also have some narcissistic tendencies, as Wes and many others have stated. The key is in our awareness of any given situation and the boundaries we can learn to set.
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Post by IW on Jun 12, 2018 6:52:33 GMT
My take on it is that a codependent operates from a position of weakness which is fear based and an empath works from a position of strength and "knowing" from divine spirit.
There is definitely something to be said about the various situations we find ourselves in, say for example an empath to friends and acquaintances, and then switching to a codependent of a family member.. This makes me think that most codependents are empaths that have not "found" themselves yet.
To be or not to be that is the question...
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Post by girlscout on Jun 12, 2018 13:38:56 GMT
It can be confusing to sort out, that’s for sure!
I like everyone around me to be happy! The codependent literature implies I’m being “controlling” when I try to influence that!
I have discovered some fear I was unaware of, deeply buried, though. And facing all the other things about myself that was also buried, is quite the challenge! I’m sure I flinched a few times. Lol
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Post by ML on Jun 14, 2018 0:13:49 GMT
This is a very informative.
there are thoughts in my mind that says "Its a good idea to make this public"
what do you guys think?
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Post by ML on Jun 29, 2018 1:16:18 GMT
i'll move this thread to the public area if no one is opposed to it.
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Post by girlscout on Jun 29, 2018 16:56:06 GMT
sure
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Post by ML on Jul 2, 2018 4:00:56 GMT
MOVED====> General Board\Empaths
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Post by girlscout on Aug 5, 2018 22:03:33 GMT
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Post by girlscout on Aug 12, 2018 2:22:31 GMT
“In the CD [chemical dependency] field, narcissism (or self-centered ness) is linked directly with the disease of alcoholism and/or co-dependence, and it is treated, as a character defect, with the Twelve Step program.”
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Post by IW on Aug 29, 2018 5:10:04 GMT
Complete honesty is difficult (the use of language compounds this). I find even between the best of friends there can be an old worn façade to hide emotions, and the secretive shadow self. To continue to hide it, means there is a holding onto it. The parts of my being that aren't even me, a distorted remnant of old things, rags of shame I call them.
But with self acceptance, comes patience, a deep sigh of relief that however one is at that moment is not ALL there is. Freedom to be the observer and not the sufferer. Once one has exceeded the boundaries placed by others, than the only boundary is the one placed by self.
I was led back to the Serena, Lady of the Woods blog, thinking of truelight. Here's some posted things to share:
In my ways, in my world, Empathy is the only form of truthful communication which is so pure and light, efficient and thorough that it is far more than communication, it is Communion. Its lack on this planets peoples is the block to all truth and petri dish for deceit and corruption. For through empathy there is literally no room for deceit or error because the 'inner being' senses (feels) All in a second, nothing can be hidden, there is no confusion, only pure truth. But in this world, people do not engage this and use only intellect, their minds, speak what they want, in the tone (frequency) they want hoping to elicit specific responses. This is not only primitive, but reflects cunning hidden motives.
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Post by IW on Aug 29, 2018 5:12:12 GMT
I will not succumb to the darkness that destroys nor to false love and false light that is quick to rabid rage when you do not believe the "show". I will grow in my Light. The more I am messed with, the more I will grow.
I HAVE SPOKEN.
Beloved Ensouled ones, do not be fooled. Wake up. Drop beliefs and discard their brainwashing. SEE what is happening on Earth, around you and in your own life for what it is and recognize the attacks for what they are....not mere misfortune, not bad luck, not just "shit happens" but see it for the orchestrations that they truly are. If you are ensouled, you have been targeted and will be seen, and any attempts you have to assist your Self or others, will result in vengeance. INVALUABLE information below, excerpts from "The Hidden Forces Of Life" by The Mother and Sri Aurobindo. For those who seek to understand the quagmire they are entangled in, in this life, and for those who wish to maintain their Light.
To be Free is to Know Truth.
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Post by IW on Aug 29, 2018 5:13:30 GMT
The Hidden Forces of Life ~ Sri Aurobindo & The Mother
“Men are being constantly invaded by the hostiles (occult forces) and there are great numbers of men who are partly or entirely under their influence. Some are possessed by them, others (a few) are incarnations of hostile beings. At the present moment they are very active all over the earth. Of course in the outside world there is no consciousness, such as is developed in yoga, by which they can either become aware of or consciously repel the attacks – the struggle in them between the psychic (soul) and the hostile force goes on mostly behind the veil or so far as it is on the surface is not understood by the mind.
The apparent freedom and self-assertion of our personal being to which we are so profoundly attached, conceal a most pitiable subjection to a thousand suggestions, impulsions, forces which we have made extraneous to your little person. Our ego, boasting of freedom, is at every moment the slave, toy and puppet of countless beings, powers, forces, influences in universal Nature. All life is the play of universal forces. The individual gives a personal form to these universal forces.
But he can choose whether he shall respond or not to the action of a particular force. Only most people do not really choose – they indulge the play of the forces. Your illnesses, depressions, etc. are the repeated play of such forces. It is only when one can make oneself free of them that one can be the true person and have a true life – but one can be free only by living in the Divine.”
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Post by IW on Aug 29, 2018 5:14:35 GMT
The first attempt of the possessing entity is to separate the person from his psychic [soul], and it is that that creates the struggle. All depends on the extent and persistence of the possession – how much of the being it occupies and whether it is constant or not.
Hostile forces attack every sadhak; some are conscious of it, others are not. Their object is either to influence the person or to use him or to spoil his sadhana (spiritual practice) or the work or any other motive of the kind. Their object is not to test, but their attack may be used by the guiding power as a test.
It is one thing to see things and quite another to let them enter into you. One has to experience many things, to see and observe, to bring them into the field of the consciousness and know what they are. But there is no reason why you should allow them to enter into you and possess you. It is only the Divine or what comes from the Divine that can be admitted to enter you.
To say that all light is good is as if you said that all water is good – or even that all clear or transparent water is good: it would not be true. One must see what is the nature of the light or where it comes from or what is in it, before one can say that it is the true Light. False lights exist and misleading lustres, lower lights too that belong to the being’s inferior reaches. One must therefore be on one’s guard and distinguish; the true discrimination has to come by growth of the psychic feeling and a purified mind and experience.
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Post by IW on Aug 29, 2018 5:15:44 GMT
Evil forces can always attack in moments of unconsciousness or half-consciousness or through the subconscient or external physical – so long as all is not supramentally transformed. The hostile forces do not need a cause for attacking – they attack whenever and whoever they can. What one has to see is that nothing responds or admits them.
The hostile forces have a certain self-chosen function: it is to test the condition of the individual, of the work, of the earth itself and their readiness for the spiritual descent and fulfillment. At every step of the journey, they are there attacking furiously, criticizing, suggesting, imposing despondency or inciting to revolt, raising unbelief, amassing difficulties. No doubt, they put a very exaggerated interpretation on the rights given them by their function, making mountains even out of what seems to us a mole-hill.
A little trifling false step or mistake and they appear on the road and clap a whole Himalaya as a barrier across it. But this opposition has been permitted from of old not merely as a test or ordeal, but as a compulsion on us to seek a greater strength, a more perfect self-knowledge, an intenser purity and force of aspiration, a faith that nothing can crush, a more powerful descent of the Divine Grace.
Whatever point the adverse forces choose for attack, however small it may seem to the external human mind, becomes a crucial point and to yield it up may be to yield to them one of the keys of the fortress. Even if it is a small postern door, it is enough for them if they can enter.
Nothing is really small and unimportant in the Great Path. Especially, when the struggle has come down to the physical level, these distinctions cease to have any value; for there “small” things have a not easily calculable index value and are of great importance. On that level to lose a small post may be to make certain the loss of the big battle.
All have had to pass through the ordeal and test through which you are passing. We would have avoided it for you if it had been possible, but since it has come we look to you to persist and conquer. Patience, quiet endurance, calm resolution to go through to the end and triumph, these are the qualities now required of you – the less spectacular but more substantial of the warrior virtues.
Also, perspicacity and vigilance. Do not shut your eyes to the difficulty in you or turn away from it, but also let it not discourage you. Victory is certain if we persevere, and what price of difficulty and endeavour can be too great for such a conquest?
These attacks very ordinarily become violent when the progress is becoming rapid and on the way to be definite – especially if they find they cannot carry out an effective aggression into the inner being, they try to shake by outside assaults. One must take it as a trial of strength, a call for gathering all one’s capacities of calm and openness to the Light and Power, so as to make oneself an instrument for the victory of the Divine over the undivine, of the Light over the darkness in the world-tangle. It is in this spirit that you must face these difficulties till the higher things are so confirmed in you that these forces can attack no longer.
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Post by IW on Aug 29, 2018 5:16:59 GMT
There are two things that make it impossible for them [the hostile forces] to succeed even temporarily in any attack on the mind or the vital – first, an entire love, devotion and confidence that nothing can shake [embodied non-reactive zero-point consciousness], secondly, a calm and equality in the vital as well as in the mind which has become the fundamental character of the inner nature. Suggestions then may still come, things go wrong outside, but the being remains invulnerable. Either of these two things is sufficient in itself – and in proportion as they grow, even the existence of the hostile forces becomes less and less of a phenomenon of the inner life – though they may still be there in the outer atmosphere.”
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Post by IW on Aug 29, 2018 19:35:44 GMT
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